She's too trapped in her own fantasy world. More than half of the stuff that happens to her character is abuse and not BDSM because there is no consent, and I'm not just talking about the sex parts. Every BDSM participant I've talked to agrees that this book is clearly portraying an abusive relationship and not a BDSM one.
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Fifty Things Wrong with Fifty Shades of Gray
The Philapdelphia Incident - a real life 50 Shades incident.